Stressful Week

Last week was one of the stressful week in my life. Went for an assessment in HQ follow by accompany Dad to fix his heart operation date in UMSC.

Assessment in HQ most likely failed because not perform well especially in presentation part but well, we will never know what happen next. Kinda intensive assessment with group discussions, presentations, interview and some paper assessment. No matter successful or not, honestly i don't really care. Was nervous because it was assessed by HR and this will indirectly given impact for my future career assessment. I always believe if we are working hard, this can be seen .

Accompanied dad went to UMSC last Thursday, the whole process kinda challenging, i was super nervous but thank GOD, the Dr super nice and profesional. Trying his very best to explain the operations procedure to me and he was shocked when i asked some medical procedure, He thought i'm a  nurse.

Surgery appointment fixed on 16 August 2016. Gosh, this is 14 of july in chinese calendar. Well, i'm not superstitious but damn worried after got to know the date. Pray hard but i'm confidence you gonna be fine.

Chiang Mai & Chiang Rai 2015 - Part 1

Stayed at Dursit Princess Hotel, a 4 star hotel which managed by 5 star management, well, it is a walking distance to the night bazaar and most importantly MCD, Burger King, starbuck,7-11 are along the way.That's extremely important to us as breakfast not included in our stays.

Personally think that this trip will be better if we make it to 5 days 4 nights instead of 3 nights.Reached hotel about 3p.m, after settle down, we straight away go to the counter buy for the day tour for the next two days. After so many visits to Thailand, i was well trained in barging and the agency tour staff are finally agreed with the price of RM280 for 2 days tour which i found it very cheap.

On 16 Sept , driver picked us at hotel lobby in the morning, it took us four hours to reach Chiangrai. Along the way, we were stopped at hot spring for side seeing before heading to the famous white temple . I was amazed by the structure of the white temple. one of the MUST visit place in Chiang Rai. We also visited the private museum which namely black museum, long neck village and golden triangle .

一路好走

舅母昏迷两天就走了, 幸好在昏迷前还来得及见孩子最后一面.

虽然并没有埋怨疼痛但癌症病者后期的痛是可想而知.我觉得与其在疼痛中度过倒不如,放手.
哪个父母真的能放得下孩子但如果缘分已尽.那就得坦然接受.

生离死别,在所难免,逃不调也避不了.所以要学会希福.

望着桌上舅母的照片让我体会到,人往往花太多时间在工作上,总有一大堆的烂借口,忙工作 ,忙升职,忙家庭,忽略了家人.当把所有东西给忙完以后,可能双亲已不在了.

所以我要学会公私分明,永远不把工作带进家里.我会加油!

奇迹

赶回家乡看舅母。医生说，日子不多了。

简单几个字但就带给我们莫大的痛苦。

双胸都被割除，化疗三次，手术无数次，我说，放手吧！这样的折磨，够了。

面对死神的呼唤，除了痛哭，我们凡人还能做些什么？

无论如何，还是盼望奇迹。

Thailand SUPER FAN

My next destination........Chiang Mai

After Chiang Mai, that's only Ko Samui left . That means i've covered all of the famous places in Thailand namely Bangkok, Pattaya, Hua Hin, Ko Le Pih, Phuket, Krabi...

Big Planning for 2015

I always wanted to make the new year resolutions precisely so that it will not lost tract and set a clearer picture what are the stuff that left behind and what had i did well.

I have divided it into 4 quarters so that it looks more organize, at least to me.

1.  Exercise at least 150 min per week
2.  Leaving office not later by 7.30p.m.


Jan-March

1. saving for parents CNY angpow
2. Start to survey for master room wardrobe

April - June

1. 80% of bonus save as FD
2. Travel - Patayya/ Chiang Mai / Philippine
3. Invest in PRS - min 1K
4. Family Trip - Hatyai / Macau /

July - Sept

1. Use the increment to buy a saving plan
2. To finish another 2 papers for LOMA
3. Contractual bonus - payment for wardrobe

Oct - Dec

1. Travel - Taiwan
2. Maybank/ CIMB investment plan

Happy Belated Birthday to myself

Celebration of this year was slightly different compared to years before, coz i was in Bangkok. This was the third time to Bangkok in 2014, kinda crazy but with different gang of friends. Why not!
I started to acknowledge the facts that travel mate really part of the consideration of the journey of travel.

Honestly, the third time was sucks. I personally think that it will be more fun if i go alone, can you imagine that extend of my travel mate. I mean, i don't expect a perfect travel mate that will go for whatever i want, i don't mean that. I need a travel mate who is understand, willing to work things out, compromise. I personally believe that each of every individual does have their own Do and DON'T, we need to figure it out to the best level to make everybody happy, afterall, travel should be something fun and relax.

I do have my own basic requirements when go to travel. To me, hotel is the most important, it has to be clean at least, not necessary cheap but within the range that acceptable. I don't really go for luxury food for every single meal but local food is a must and if budget allow, i will go to one of the classy restaurant as an ending of the journey. Other than that, i'm fine . I don't think i'm a bad travel mate but i really annoyed by those calculative type of person that every single movement need to be the cheapest. Come on, it doesn't make a different by saving 'cents' per say.

Well, the conclusion is , i had a bad travel mate for my birthday trip. But HuaHin such an amazing place that undeniable beautiful, gorgeous scenes that we should visit at least once in our life time, but get ready your sunblock, kinda hot!

Taiwan ..here i go

just did my booking to Tawain next year in Oct for 7 days. Kinda excited.

Singapore Trip

My first visit to SG was 20 years back when i was 12, SG will never in my travel list especially the currency is gone up like a rocket. I always thought that might as well spending my money in Australia rather in SG.

Daddy holding a silver member card at Resort World Sentosa, SG, members are allowed to redeem a room with their points and that is how we managed to go to SG this round. 5 of us are going including daddy, mummy, sister, brother-in-law and my cute nephew. one free room from my daddy's member card and the other room we bought over from his friend with a price of SG150 , SG30 cheaper than the usual price.

if compared to the room at Genting, this is much more comfortable . 2 days were spending at the hotel and casino. There are a lots of scene and lighting effects which easily make you busy the whole day capturing the the nice view.   

After back from Singapore, we were heading to JBO (johor premier Outlet), GOD, some of the shirts are cheap especially PUMA. Too bad we are only allowed to spend an hour there before heading to Malacca. Last stop was in Malacca, spend a night there before back to KL.

Family Trip 2014

After 9 years, we had our family trip again last month to Langkawi. Was nice but tiring. Should have at least to stay 4 days instead of 2 nights.

We arrived in the noon and straight away check into " Resort World  Hotel" then following by city tour and side seeing. At night, we were having dinner at "Fish Farm restaurant" which very famous in Langkawi, good environment but the price is kinda expensive.

Second day we went for eagle feeding and sea tour with speed board. Exclusive tour as only 5 of us in the board, yes, we 'bao' the board. :) . Parents are as excited as my nephew. After lunch, we were checking in to "Meritus Pelangi Beach Report and Spa", first time in my life that staying into 5 star hotel. Exclusive environment and the best ever swimming pool i ever seen.

The whole trip was good though spending a lot. Good to spend time with family and proud that i'm still have the ability to bring my parents around.

Promotion

After 5 years with this company, finally i get promoted to a Senior Exec. Though the increment is very pathetic but am grateful , at least a wider opportunity when i go out later. 

Congratulations  to myself .

MH370

Let's pray for the miracle. 
May all the passengers are safe.

我还是单身

新年间逃不了的就是聚会，聚会难不了的问题就是婚姻。救命啊！
是，我还是单身。

不渴望爱情了吗！ 非也，只是真爱难寻。
太挑剔了吧。到不觉得。我只要一个能包容我双亲的她。不需要太美，但她一定要很疼我的爸妈。双亲都是病患者，未来肯定需要别人照顾，在那个时候，我希望她能分担这个责任。我真的深信，人可以笨，可以没钱，但不可以不孝。今天的因就是明日的果。今天你如何对待长老，改天孩儿们就怎样对待咱们。

在迈入30岁时会很紧张，由其看到身边的朋友已成双成对，有些已有小朋友。话虽如此，但我也不要随随便便的找个伴。或许年龄渐渐长大，越能了解自己要的是什么，思想更贴近自己想要的。

2014 第一金

这是昨天买的，希望能为我带来好运。原2014大丰收。发呀！

無名指的背叛

有位男同事结婚多年,拥有两位千金,老婆就是位家庭主妇.生活还算过得去.原本就很让人羡慕但我相信这美好的画面在不久的将来就会破灭.

原因很简单,男的搭上了一位在JB 分行工作的职员。女的长得还满好看，单身，芳龄25。以她的条件，相信要找个伴应该不难，很是让人奇怪为何单身，更令人摸不着头的就是她知道男的已结婚。天阿！我的想法很简单，竟然彼此都是成人，男的也告知对方他的家庭背景，如果万一女方怀孕，那是男的笨，女的聪明，如果到最后分手收场，那是男的聪明，女的笨。

无论在什么情况下，我都不赞同成为被人的第三者，到头来受伤最深就是说为的你。理智点吧，等他把婚离了在谈吧，也要记得，他现在可以为了你而抛弃她，有一天，他也能为了她抛弃那时的你。

所以我真的很同情那位男同事的太太，从早忙到晚，为了家庭放弃以切，换来的就是無名指的背叛。每每看到他的丈夫忙着为阿三转短讯，我就有股冲动想要告知他老婆。一天工作数小时，他花了90%的时间在转短讯，有时大伙儿出去聚会，他也把握机会跟小三用短讯来传情。

上个月与同事到PG参加马拉松，他们也约好了在哪儿见面。我们大活儿也是到了PG才知道，就是要试探他，我们就把一辆车的钥匙留在旅馆然后告知他我们大概晚上才回，叫他保管。谁知道，我们在高速公路遇见她驾着同事的车，打扮美美出发，那时在我们离开后的20分钟，可想而知的迫不及待。当时，我们知道，他们两是无药可救。

生日. 礼物

Bought myself an Ipod as birthday gift. This is much more convinice to bring along while jogging compared to my Iphone.

I'm loving it..:)

Happy 32 Birthday

Things have changed over the years except my birthday wish. Nothing more,nothing less, wishing my lovely family stay healthy always.

Happy Birthday to ME.

Penang Bridge International Marathon 2013

Another 6 more days to go for the Penang Bridge International Marathon and i'm only practice once in this morning. But i'm confidence enough to finish it and bring this medal back.

Penang here i come!

喜事缠身

最近喜事连连，被红炸弹炸个没完没了。说实在，我并不抗拒。

我觉得反正就是喜事，出席与否就要看交情咯，但红包就一定会送上。

同事说我LC，很挑，对！反正就是要有熟习的脸孔，要不就干脆不出席， 一了百了，才不要去到傻傻一个人。我又不是PartTime 陪笑，才不要搞得这样难看。

My Memorable friend - WW

when i was sending email via facebook yesterday and suddenly saw this message which was sending to my friend who suffering from nerve problem last year.

• Conversation started March 3, 2012
• 3/3, 10:58pm

   

  i'm one one the follower of pooi's blog. I read it day in and day out,i partially know what was happened on you until she SMS me this morning. i've the whole picture after parcel here and there.
  Wawa,please don't blame her..She is just way concern about you. We are friend, though we seldom meet but i still can clearly remember the smile on your face while you were holding jery's hand stepped in to the hall during your wedding dinner. You got the best man that you love.In fact , you deserve it. everything is on your hand. Don't panic, don't give up, fight for yourself, fight for someone that you love, fight for the man that you say 'IＤＯ＇．Fight for your life.
  We are all here to support you. I truly understand your fear, doubts. I can hear it clear and loud. Who can understand better than me that always due with the illness people? Let me tell you this, my mum diagnosed breast cancer 6 years ago, she was crying, upset and blaming why is her, she refused to do operation until we begging her to do so. Chemo was so suffering but Till now she told me that she always Thank GOD that letting her have these so much time with someone that she love.
  Wawa, so many hospital out there, techno is so powerful now. Without a proper checking, no one able to cure you. Touch wood, if really something happened then so what? i'm sure treatment always there. No one has the right to take you out of this world if you are not willing to do so. Be strong, be positive.
  If you need our accompany to hospital, we are always here for you.Jia you!
  
   After 18 months , she left us with so much ungiven words. Life isn't always as smooth as what we want it to be, like it or not, we have to accept and digest and form it as part of our memory.