Wednesday, December 11, 2013

無名指的背叛

有位男同事结婚多年,拥有两位千金,老婆就是位家庭主妇.生活还算过得去.原本就很让人羡慕但我相信这美好的画面在不久的将来就会破灭.

原因很简单,男的搭上了一位在JB 分行工作的职员。女的长得还满好看,单身,芳龄25。以她的条件,相信要找个伴应该不难,很是让人奇怪为何单身,更令人摸不着头的就是她知道男的已结婚。天阿!我的想法很简单,竟然彼此都是成人,男的也告知对方他的家庭背景,如果万一女方怀孕,那是男的笨,女的聪明,如果到最后分手收场,那是男的聪明,女的笨。

无论在什么情况下,我都不赞同成为被人的第三者,到头来受伤最深就是说为的你。理智点吧,等他把婚离了在谈吧,也要记得,他现在可以为了你而抛弃她,有一天,他也能为了她抛弃那时的你。

所以我真的很同情那位男同事的太太,从早忙到晚,为了家庭放弃以切,换来的就是無名指的背叛。每每看到他的丈夫忙着为阿三转短讯,我就有股冲动想要告知他老婆。一天工作数小时,他花了90%的时间在转短讯,有时大伙儿出去聚会,他也把握机会跟小三用短讯来传情。

上个月与同事到PG参加马拉松,他们也约好了在哪儿见面。我们大活儿也是到了PG才知道,就是要试探他,我们就把一辆车的钥匙留在旅馆然后告知他我们大概晚上才回,叫他保管。谁知道,我们在高速公路遇见她驾着同事的车,打扮美美出发,那时在我们离开后的20分钟,可想而知的迫不及待。当时,我们知道,他们两是无药可救。

Thursday, November 28, 2013

生日. 礼物



Bought myself an Ipod as birthday gift. This is much more convinice to bring along while jogging compared to my Iphone.

I'm loving it..:)

Friday, November 22, 2013

Happy 32 Birthday






Things have changed over the years except my birthday wish. Nothing more,nothing less, wishing my lovely family stay healthy always.

Happy Birthday to ME.

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Penang Bridge International Marathon 2013






Another 6 more days to go for the Penang Bridge International Marathon and i'm only practice once in this morning. But i'm confidence enough to finish it and bring this medal back.

Penang here i come!


Friday, November 1, 2013

喜事缠身

最近喜事连连,被红炸弹炸个没完没了。说实在,我并不抗拒。

我觉得反正就是喜事,出席与否就要看交情咯,但红包就一定会送上。

同事说我LC,很挑,对!反正就是要有熟习的脸孔,要不就干脆不出席, 一了百了,才不要去到傻傻一个人。我又不是PartTime 陪笑,才不要搞得这样难看。



Monday, October 7, 2013

My Memorable friend - WW

when i was sending email via facebook yesterday and suddenly saw this message which was sending to my friend who suffering from nerve problem last year.


  • Conversation started March 3, 2012
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    i'm one one the follower of pooi's blog. I read it day in and day out,i partially know what was happened on you until she SMS me this morning. i've the whole picture after parcel here and there.
    Wawa,please don't blame her..She is just way concern about you. We are friend, though we seldom meet but i still can clearly remember the smile on your face while you were holding jery's hand stepped in to the hall during your wedding dinner. You got the best man that you love.In fact , you deserve it. everything is on your hand. Don't panic, don't give up, fight for yourself, fight for someone that you love, fight for the man that you say 'IDO'.Fight for your life.
    We are all here to support you. I truly understand your fear, doubts. I can hear it clear and loud. Who can understand better than me that always due with the illness people? Let me tell you this, my mum diagnosed breast cancer 6 years ago, she was crying, upset and blaming why is her, she refused to do operation until we begging her to do so. Chemo was so suffering but Till now she told me that she always Thank GOD that letting her have these so much time with someone that she love.
    Wawa, so many hospital out there, techno is so powerful now. Without a proper checking, no one able to cure you. Touch wood, if really something happened then so what? i'm sure treatment always there. No one has the right to take you out of this world if you are not willing to do so. Be strong, be positive.
    If you need our accompany to hospital, we are always here for you.Jia you!

     After 18 months , she left us with so much ungiven words. Life isn't always as smooth as what we want it to be, like it or not, we have to accept and digest and form it as part of our memory.

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Team Building



Got this last week during company team building. Kinda shock but was happy and satisfy. I feel good!

Hopefully by getting this will smoother my journey to get a new job.