無名指的背叛

有位男同事结婚多年,拥有两位千金,老婆就是位家庭主妇.生活还算过得去.原本就很让人羡慕但我相信这美好的画面在不久的将来就会破灭.

原因很简单,男的搭上了一位在JB 分行工作的职员。女的长得还满好看，单身，芳龄25。以她的条件，相信要找个伴应该不难，很是让人奇怪为何单身，更令人摸不着头的就是她知道男的已结婚。天阿！我的想法很简单，竟然彼此都是成人，男的也告知对方他的家庭背景，如果万一女方怀孕，那是男的笨，女的聪明，如果到最后分手收场，那是男的聪明，女的笨。

无论在什么情况下，我都不赞同成为被人的第三者，到头来受伤最深就是说为的你。理智点吧，等他把婚离了在谈吧，也要记得，他现在可以为了你而抛弃她，有一天，他也能为了她抛弃那时的你。

所以我真的很同情那位男同事的太太，从早忙到晚，为了家庭放弃以切，换来的就是無名指的背叛。每每看到他的丈夫忙着为阿三转短讯，我就有股冲动想要告知他老婆。一天工作数小时，他花了90%的时间在转短讯，有时大伙儿出去聚会，他也把握机会跟小三用短讯来传情。

上个月与同事到PG参加马拉松，他们也约好了在哪儿见面。我们大活儿也是到了PG才知道，就是要试探他，我们就把一辆车的钥匙留在旅馆然后告知他我们大概晚上才回，叫他保管。谁知道，我们在高速公路遇见她驾着同事的车，打扮美美出发，那时在我们离开后的20分钟，可想而知的迫不及待。当时，我们知道，他们两是无药可救。

生日. 礼物

Bought myself an Ipod as birthday gift. This is much more convinice to bring along while jogging compared to my Iphone.

I'm loving it..:)

Happy 32 Birthday

Things have changed over the years except my birthday wish. Nothing more,nothing less, wishing my lovely family stay healthy always.

Happy Birthday to ME.

Penang Bridge International Marathon 2013

Another 6 more days to go for the Penang Bridge International Marathon and i'm only practice once in this morning. But i'm confidence enough to finish it and bring this medal back.

Penang here i come!

喜事缠身

最近喜事连连，被红炸弹炸个没完没了。说实在，我并不抗拒。

我觉得反正就是喜事，出席与否就要看交情咯，但红包就一定会送上。

同事说我LC，很挑，对！反正就是要有熟习的脸孔，要不就干脆不出席， 一了百了，才不要去到傻傻一个人。我又不是PartTime 陪笑，才不要搞得这样难看。

My Memorable friend - WW

when i was sending email via facebook yesterday and suddenly saw this message which was sending to my friend who suffering from nerve problem last year.

• Conversation started March 3, 2012
• 3/3, 10:58pm

   

  i'm one one the follower of pooi's blog. I read it day in and day out,i partially know what was happened on you until she SMS me this morning. i've the whole picture after parcel here and there.
  Wawa,please don't blame her..She is just way concern about you. We are friend, though we seldom meet but i still can clearly remember the smile on your face while you were holding jery's hand stepped in to the hall during your wedding dinner. You got the best man that you love.In fact , you deserve it. everything is on your hand. Don't panic, don't give up, fight for yourself, fight for someone that you love, fight for the man that you say 'IＤＯ＇．Fight for your life.
  We are all here to support you. I truly understand your fear, doubts. I can hear it clear and loud. Who can understand better than me that always due with the illness people? Let me tell you this, my mum diagnosed breast cancer 6 years ago, she was crying, upset and blaming why is her, she refused to do operation until we begging her to do so. Chemo was so suffering but Till now she told me that she always Thank GOD that letting her have these so much time with someone that she love.
  Wawa, so many hospital out there, techno is so powerful now. Without a proper checking, no one able to cure you. Touch wood, if really something happened then so what? i'm sure treatment always there. No one has the right to take you out of this world if you are not willing to do so. Be strong, be positive.
  If you need our accompany to hospital, we are always here for you.Jia you!
  
   After 18 months , she left us with so much ungiven words. Life isn't always as smooth as what we want it to be, like it or not, we have to accept and digest and form it as part of our memory.

Team Building

Got this last week during company team building. Kinda shock but was happy and satisfy. I feel good!

Hopefully by getting this will smoother my journey to get a new job.

SOS Product

很多人都说SK2的成分太强，不适合长期使用，用久了就会依赖。我反而觉得还好。
个人并不觉得里头的成分有多强，反而觉得价钱有够贵。不是一般的打工族能负担得起。

这已是我第二次使用。距离上次已有好一段日子，要不因为已到了烂脸的程度，SK2绝对不会是我的选择。并不奢望能回到婴儿般的肌肤，但求没有太油腻就好。

Fossil

Just bought myself a fossil watch as a birthday gift. RM448 after minus off cash rebate from AMEX card user.

First time in my life that owing a watch that more than four hundred. My GOD, heart pain the whole night. Coming few months gonna skip my dinner already.

我不自己

好棒的一首本地创作

Gathering - Outback Steakhouse, Bukt Bintang

It's actually feeling good to gather with some friends with nice foods gossiping about bosses and colleagues. 5 of us are used to be working in the same branch but one has resigned, the other two have transferred to the other branch.  Though we are not working in the same roof but relationships is getting better and we are planning to go vacation together which we will never have the chance if working at the same place.

Phuket 2013

 Staying at Destination Spa and hotel in Patong for 4 days 3 nights. It is walking distance to the beach and about 10 minutes to the shopping centre which make the hotel very strategic.

Juncceylon - the only shopping center in patong area but trust me, you can easily walk with some good stuff.

There are many restaurant in the shopping mall and the price are reasonable.

We took our very first dinner at this luxury restaurant that full of Europe style - 101 Restaurant.

My friend has ordered a Thai tomyam with blended apple whereas i  go with pork chop with blended watermelon. It only cost me RM48. With that big portion..my GOD..it is cheap.

In patong, you can easily see this open concept facial treatment. Treatments are not do it in the room whereas in open area like this.

Day 2 we went to visit tempers and some souvenir shop.Not really a temper person
but do impress with all the hand make art.

This is one of the pic captured by my friend. Look at the guy, GOSH, he is wearing yellow green shirt with his cross leg and 45 degree up right to take his best picture.  Come to my surprise he is not the only one did the same post, there are few aunty who is in their 40 doing the same thing also.

Final day we went to 'james bond' island. About 2 hour plus from patong area. No luck , it's a raining day, end up we cant snap any nice picture.

 Through out the journey , the boat will stop at one of the big ferry to allow the customer to take 
a so called 'banana boat' to get nearer to the cave which is about 15 minutes from the ferry. Friend and i forbia about swimming so we excuse ourselves for that side seeing. 

Our phuket virginity show is given to 'akua show" . Honestly they are amazing. Without open their mouth, they are as pretty as the Ms World if not better . At first i thought they only will have some simple cat walk but who knows they are dancing and singing. With the hard works and efforts , they deserved the price that we paid for.


There are 2 international culture show in phuket which are Fanta sea and Siam Niramit. I do not know the different but when you walked along the road, you will see many tour is offering to the show of Fanta sea. Since we have booked the Siam Niramit show, so we left for no choice. Siam Niramit building is located about 30 minutes from our hotel. It is a very big building area with dinner and car park provided. Before the show started, they are many other culture show perform out of the theater .  To me culture show will be like a group of dancer run here and there with some background music and most importantly is their smiling face along the dancing.  Betul sekali, this is what shown in the show but on top of that the sound system, backdrop , props are impressive. My friend and I are given A++ to the show. Thumbs up.

The travel journey ended with a visit to patong beach. Nothing much, just as good as Port Dickson.

后备

有时人与人之间，除了缘分还得需要用‘心’来呵护。

有位朋友总爱方鸽子，寂寞时就会约我与朋友B聚会，到最后如有别的聚会就会方咱们的鸽子。朋友B总会埋怨地大吐不快，感叹朋友也有分首选与后备。

我其实也没有太大的感觉，反正朋友本来就分好多种。如真的和不来，那些就是普通朋友。其实没有必要为了这些琐碎事伤脑筋。有人的地方就会有比较，有比较就会有等级，有了等级自然而然就会有分现与后。

青青河边草

好怀念的一套连续剧。昨天把它给带回家。

世上唯一

四年前花了好几千元买的sofa,原本打算可用个十多二十年才罢休，天意弄人，表面的皮捱不过岁月的摧残，开始有了脱皮的现象。天阿！我买的可是真皮，心有不甘，但也没有多余的钱去替换一套。虽说表面已毁容但内涵可保养得蛮好的，所以我决定把它换皮。如要厂商重新包扎可要收费两千块以上，所以我打算自己把挑好的布料缝上。

虽然图案并非我喜欢的，颜色也非我所爱，但成果是满意的。这可是世上唯一的一套sofa.

Dropping line..

Just did an analysis for my bonuses over the years. Noticed that it is a dropping line from 2009 to 2012. This really tells us a lot . If the office is not walking distance from my condo and if it is not because of the company aspiration , guess i already cabut for long long time ago.

Back to the reality, if it is a facts and beyond my control, like it or not, we still have to accept it. I'm neither a greedy nor ambitious guy, never aim for something that not achieveable. My small tiny wish is to make sure i be able to feed my parents well after they are retired later. This is a responsibility as a son.

2013 salary increment

Just got my salary increment letter from HR, a disappointed declaration and the worse of declaration ever during my serving with this company.

Company recorded another successful year in 2012 with 1.8% above our target but yet the declaration is much lesser than previous years.

3% of increment . My GOD! i am speechless.

过去

非常喜欢这张照片。以前我们的分行是公认最棒的，无论是服务态度，人际关系，团体精神，又或是办事能力。但如今已成往事。再多两个月，就只剩下我这个唯一的华人。

无能的老板将一个一个能干的下属逼走，剩下的就是那些碍眼的杂草。有时我真的很替她感到可悲，也佩服她的无知。在职场打滚这么久都还分辨不到是与非，好与坏，小人还是贵人。
嘴巴只会埋怨下属的不是，从来就没有检讨是否是自己的领导出现问题。

“别人有八个员工，我们也有八员工，为何别人可以做得比我们好”这是她习惯性问我的问题，以前我会给很多意见，但现在的我就使耳不闻，大笨象耳朵，什么也没听到，反正她从来就没听进去。别的员工可以闲到上面子书，而我就忙到披头散发。以前我会很生气，但现在的我，想开了，反正还有一年就可离开了，做多或少已不重要。

Photo album for Nephew

This is part of the picture i designed for my nephew photobook. Guess what, he really look alike me...That's what my family member always say.

女人的痛

大年初一就去了婆婆家一趟，想多了解舅母的近况。

医药报告显示，另一个乳房也有肿瘤，得切除。天阿！

舅母感叹的说了一句，‘什么都切了’。

为了不让舅母看到我红了的双眼， 我匆匆的把准备好的钱交到舅母手上就离开了。

蛇年快乐

明天就是新年了，愿回家的游子，旅途平安。

叶剑锋

叶剑锋，本地知名新闻主播。

增经出席过他的个人演讲节目，很棒！无论是内容，语言，表达都几乎完美。难能可贵就是他的情和力 与随和的个性，虽然并不知道他是否和别的艺人般，台上台下两个样，但我真的认为他是个很棒的男人，无论是出众的外观，高尚的EQ与IQ,难能可贵还有一颗册子之心。

整个演说都在围绕着‘家’，记忆特别深刻就是

“我的职业就是当爸妈的孩子，其它工作全都是兼职” 。简单但深奥的道理。

钱惹的祸

有时真的搞不懂，为何身边的朋友总会认为我很‘有米’。每当我在埋怨钱不够用的当儿。他们就会联手还击。以前会多做解释，现在也开始麻木了。可悲的，竟然表哥姐也同样认为在KL工作就应该有可观的收入。

两星期前，舅母需要大概五千元动手续切掉左边的乳房，与姐姐商量了就托表姐把一千元交给舅母以便减轻他们的负担，但换来的就是表姐与表哥的冷言冷语，说什么我们两姐弟冷血，自私，明明就很有钱但就只给那么一点点钱。两个字可形容当下的心情-无言！

每个家庭都有一定的开销，姐姐还有两间房子，两辆车，一间店在还贷款。小不点才不到7个月，庞大的开销可算而知。虽然我的贷款只有车与屋，但还需缴保险，爸妈零用钱。扣了有的没的，还可剩些什么？

以前妈妈的医药费以及化疗费也是咱们辛苦省吃俭用给搞定，并没有接受过任何的援助，就是想到所有舅舅与阿姨的孩子还小，好让他们留些钱以便急需。为什么今时今日的他们就不可以将心比心呢！

Appraisal 2012

Did my appraisal last week. Was not really happy and yet have to accept it. There are 4 part in the appraisal.

Part A - Company performance which consist of 50%
Part B - Department performance which consist of 35%
Part C - Individual projects which consist of 15%
Part D - Individual behaviour which consist of 10%

I was bit surprise when my boss told me the changes of part B, from personal productivity to department performance. My GOD! that was not indicated in my target letter and i don't think management can simply strike off . That's what i told my manager and she said top management had decided that way. BULLSHIT.

I totally disagree! No matter how hard that i work, if other colleagues are not putting in efforts , target will not achieved. Does that fair to those people that working hard? I told my boss with my piss off tone. She said she had awarded me in part c and d which i deny openly. I've contributed 48% of the department productivity and i have completed all my projects. I deserve the marks without any help. In fact, my marks should be higher than what am i getting now. Because of the changes, my marks are affected which will lead to poor bonuses later in march 2013. I'm disappointed. She keep assured me that i'm one of the high score in the company but i do not want listen that anymore.

" I don't think you are in the position to assure me. On top of that, we are not talking about 2 or 3 marks differences but 12 marks. If you do not have the power to fight on the chances of part B, i don't think you are power enough to assure me any single thing right here. More over, please do not expect much from me, what for i'm working so hard end up only 4 marks higher than those that go back sharp.  I rather spend my time with my family than sitting here  argue with you during appraisal time. " That's what i told her before i go off from her room.

2013个人蓝图

今天比以往起得特别早，晨跑过后就呆子电脑前为2013规划个人蓝图。今年要把重心放在健康，年龄大了，也开始怕死。



1。每个星期最少晨跑一次。要参加至少两次的Marathon。
2。每两个月都得带妈妈去按摩，做针灸。
3。出国旅行。目的地是日本。
4。储蓄要比去年增加10%。
5。要提高EQ。对坏的人要一笑而过。
6。要为第二间房子收集质料。地点。以行贷款。

New Year 2013

Time flies, it's 2013.An important year to me and the company i work with. Two years back, company CEO made it clear if company achieved target for the coming 3 years , additional 3 months bonus will be declared on top of the performance bonus and contractual bonus. Based on the sales figure in 2011 and 2012, i trust that it is achievable very soon.

We just had our year end closing on 21 Dec 2012 and follow with some staff appraisal. Well, i just finished the statistic and reports to my boss the day before. Struggling hard to pen down all the greats and important points and of course the kutuk-kutuk'ing' as well.That's why i always said, DO NOT step on my tail..lol.

I was not a manager nor a senior but i got to prepare the appraisal report ,purely because i'm in charged most of the projects and task in the department. Guess this will be the first time ever that a lower position small potato got the chance to rate the higher ranking colleague.There are so many incidence that flash over my mind while preparing the reports. Honestly, im in dilemma , most of them are married, to be married, bonus are important to them . If i was to telling the truth, i'm sure their bonuses are gone but if i'm helping them by pulling down the passing marks, when they going to improve? Definitely not an easy task. After few considerations, i have given them an above average marks except one staff which i have failed her. She deserve it as she is my 眼中钉.

That's why i said "你要小心男人‘。 Wishing all of you Happy New Year! Wasn't too late i suppose?